have we talked about the insanity of this conversation yet. bringing up how “passionate and vulnerable” your ex puppyboy was during a conversation with your current boyfriend about your kinks
I keep reading that Mars in Scorpio “can transform their anger” so quick question, what the fuck does that mean and how do you do that? Do you follow the pain down until there’s nothing left?
Turn the anger into love. They are opposites on the same spectrum and the spectrum will eventually become a circle.
I appreciate you giving an actual answer. Unfortunately that is still too esoteric for my air/earth/6th house dom self.
I will justify it with the benefit for you… how long will you choose suffering? You can decide in the blink of an eye to detach and let go of the suffering. What you possess, possesses you. If you possess anger it will possess you, blindly. If you actively choose love/joy/light it will fill the void.
I maintain libra in my rising/sun and Leo moon. I find scorpio in Venus as well. Anger/jealousy are all darkened versions of love. Choose compassion for yourself because deep in all our cores we have a divine light. The more we mask ourselves in pain and suffering the more we drift into the void.
I hope you two don’t mind me adding a bit more this.
As someone with Mars Scorpio combust Sagittarius Sun (Both in 12th House in Cancer degrees), here are my little nuggets along the way with having this particular placement.
It’s not really following the pain till there’s nothing left.
In my case, it was more like the the first time you break will be the first spark that will be start of long festering sleeping volcano that is just waiting for the right moment to bring everything to ruin.
There’s nothing quick about the wrath of Scorpio Mars. There’s no satisfaction in instant gratification. It’s all about waiting for the divine opportunity presented by the universe to unleash hell on earth.
It’s “transformative” in a sense that it makes one uncover skills and resilience you never knew you had. Like you didn’t know you had it in you to be so determined and focus on a singular goal.
It doesn’t really mean that you are determined to exact vengeance. It’s the anger that sparks a lasting burning ember that will fuel you to say “Enough” and finally be determined to put yourself first.
You can use that ember to fuel you to pursue your dreams in life.
So I guess, that’s why it’s said that having Scorpio Mars is transformative.
To add a little bit more, having Scorpio placements in general kinda means that you should be aware that Karma will bite you in the ass if you exact revenge or vengeance. So it’s either you let the Universe do the ass whooping for you or if you are presented by the Universe to unleash your fury, just know this,
“With vengeance, two graves, not just one, are always dug.”
So be wary about whether or not you will take matters into your own hands. You may be able to exact karma but at what cost?
So I guess that’s why you found @lizzbiannn ’s answer a bit too esoteric for your taste. Her point is valid. It’s all a matter of perspective and preference.
